How to maintain a relationship?
My elder brother ended his 6 months relationship with his girlfriend last month. None of us in the family knew about it but we did feel suspicious. My mum, younger brother and I started to discuss about this matter when my elder brother was at work.
I asked my mum, “How come ah goh didn’t talk on the phone at night already? Credit die? Or didn’t pay his phone bill again?” Mum said, “I dont know, most probably didn’t pay his phone bill. The bill is still on top of the cabinet.” Mum then questioned my lil brother who was also his ‘roomate,’ “Did ah goh talk on the phone nowadays?” Lil brother then gave us some juicy news that the girl called him more often these few nights. My elder brother however, always the one who ended the conversation after a few minutes. Telling her that he is very tired and wants to sleep now where he is actually lying. After he put down the phone, he took out his PSP and play.
My mum then added, when he fetch my elder brother from the LRT station at night, the girl called again and he scolded her, “Why do you always call me when i am in the car?” Don’t you feel the girl is so innocent? hmmm…
Last few days, my mum and i kept guessing, is he still in a relationship or back to single life? All of us dare not ask him, well to be exact, he came home very late. Most of us were in bed by the time. My mum can’t take it anymore so she checked his wallet. The picture of him and her is NOT THERE! It shows a bad sign… My mum was so excited that she found some new information and told me immediately when i woke up. My mum is so funny and cute sometimes, lol.
When we were about to conclude that my brother broke off with her, my mum came into the study room whispering to me again. “I think he is still with her, just now that phone call i think it’s from her…” I looked at my mum, seeing her expression with full of doubt, so i suggested, “Why not you go and ask him now. It will clear all the question marks surrounding your head, good idea right?” My mum laughed and tickled me…
She did accept my suggestion. The next day, she asked him, “Are you still with your girlfriend? How come you didnt talk on the phone for many many nights already?” My elder brother then said, “Fen liao loh! (broke off already loh).” My mum, “HUH?!!?!? WHY?? She has another boyfriend?” Bro, “Nolah, i dont like her kept calling me and check me. So annoying. Last time she called me at night, now she called me when i am working. Said wanna chat, she is very boring…” My brother also said that he told her that he is at work and couldnt chat with her, she got mad. My brother has to work from Monday to Saturday, 10am to 11pm, depends on his work load. Earliest, 9pm he will reach home. So the only day he could have a good rest is Sunday but he has to spend the whole day with her. So, my brother said he is very tired of it and she is not the one he is looking for.
The girl on the other hand, still continue calling him even though they broke off, the girl said she will change her attitude and asked my bro to give her another chance, my bro said, “NO! I dont want.” My elder brother is usually very polite to girls and tries to control his foul words when talking to girls. So i was surprised that he treated his girlfriend so harsh and merciless. Maybe he is really tired of her behaviour and meeting her every night after work.
Well, it seems that calling your partner too often is not a good thing and call less is not good either. So, call or don’t call?? @@ For me, if i have a boyfriend, i don’t think i will call and check his whereabouts because i dont like it too. Well, it is really hard for me to comment about relationship stuff cause i havent experience it yet. My elder bro and his ex are still friends, they still chat with each other on msn, maybe they are only meant to be friends. I only met the girl twice and she is a silent typed of person to me. I can’t believe a girl actually asked my brother to give her a second chance, seems that my bro attracts girls as well, hahahaha! I always think that girls will only run away from him because he is afraid to hurt others feelings.
So, how to maintain a relationship then? MY answer is “It is fated…”
